Certification
Integral Deep Listening provides progressive on-line certification programs in interviewing both dream elements and life issues, IDL Coach, IDL Practitioner, and IDL Trainer. The IDL Dream Yoga Certification provides an entry-level competency in interviewing your dreams, nightmares, and mystical experiences as well as those of others. The Life Issue Interviewing Certification extends this ability to the interviewing of waking dreams – the life issues most important to you today. The Coaching Certification focuses on applying IDL interviewing to healing, balancing, and transformation, not only as a foundation for a coaching practice, but in order to deepen and broaden your own application of IDL Dream Yoga. The Practitioner Certification focuses on applying the knowledge base of IDL to support groups of others of your choice: children, those with anxiety disorders or PTSD, couples, families, those with relationship or career challenges. In addition to using IDL with a particular target audience, Practitioners act as mentors to Coaches. The Trainer Certification is for those who want to teach IDL to students and act as mentors to Practitioners and Coaches. Practitioners learn Dream Sociometry and undertake published research to evaluate the effectiveness of IDL on different populations and conditions.
Cognitive Multi-Perspectivalism
Integral theory creates a map of human experience, including developmental levels and lines, states of consciousness, quadrants, and styles. The idea is that by understanding multiple world views and framings of human experience we can objectify our attachment to any one of them, recognize and respect the usefulness of all of these perspectives for our development. This form of multi-perspectivalism is “cognitive” because it provides “maps,” which are mental frameworks. Cognitive multi-perspectivalism is different from empathetic multi-perspectivalism, also described in this glossary.
Dream Yoga
There are many varieties of yogas: Hatha is physical yoga, bhakti is devotional, karma is work-oriented, jnana is meditative, kundalini is energetic, and dream yoga is classically about lucid dreaming. All yogas are transpersonal disciplines or integral life practices designed to unify who you are with the sacred, however it is understood or defined. Disciplines require persistent personal discipline as a long-term investment in acquiring and maintaining one or more skill set. Integral Deep Listening as a yoga is a life practice meant to be acquired as a daily, lifelong discipline.
As a “dream” yoga, IDL is a transpersonal discipline or integral life practice which views dreaming and the imaginal as real, authentic, and valuable as waking life while at the same time viewing waking and mystical experience as subjective, delusional, and opaque as the average dream. In both cases, its yoga is one of learning to listen, in a deep and integral way, to the “other,” regardless of its ontological status or our assumptions regarding its meaning or relative importance.
IDL uses this yoga of multi-perspectivalism to help us get over ourselves, to outgrow our infatuation with self-development and enlightenment, and to instead learn that by supporting others and humanity as a whole we most effectively and profoundly advance our own development.
IDL dream yoga does not focus on learning to lucid dream, or wake up while dreaming, as does classical Hindu/Tibetan dream yogas. Instead, it focuses on waking up out of sleepwalking, groupthink, drama, and scripted living in both waking and dream states.
Dream Sociometry
Developed by Joseph Dillard in 1980, Dream Sociometry applies Moreno’s sociometric methodology to groups of dream characters, waking life issues, historical events, fiction, synchronicities, mystical and near death experience. Dream Sociometry is the foundational methodology of IDL and is essentially a dream yoga and research tool. It has been found effective in the treatment of anxiety disorders, including phobias and PTSD, self-development, and relationship issues.
Dreamage
In Dream Sociometry, when multiple characters from one dream or life situation are interviewed, they may come to agreement on how they would change the dream or life situation. If so, the dream, nightmare, or life situation is rewritten as a consensus dream, called a “Dreamage.” If all interviewed characters agree that they don’t want to change the dream or life situation, then the dream or life situation serves as its own Dreamage. A dreamage cannot be created if one or more interviewed characters resist changes desired by the others. In IDL, Dreamages are used as potent pre-sleep incubation tools to input a pattern of higher order functioning into the dream mind, in its own visual language.
Emerging Potentials
For IDL, “emerging potentials” are interviewed characters and elements, whether they are derived from dreams, nightmares, night terrors, waking fantasies, life issues, personal life events, world crises, historical events, fiction, synchronicities, mystical, or near death experiences. They are referred to as “emerging” because as they are interviewed their perspectives and beingness emerges into our awareness and becomes incorporated into an expanded sense of who we are. They are referred to as “potentials” because they are mere possibilities that only take on the degree of healing, balancing, and transformational reality in our lives that we allow them to.
Empathetic Multi-perspectivalism
While cognitive multi-perspectivalism, such as Integral Theory or the theoretical framework of Integral Deep Listening Dream Yoga, provides maps to guide our learning, empathetic multi-perspectivalism is walking the territory of alternative ways of framing our life issues, dreams, nightmares, and experiences from altered states of consciousness. It does so by teaching us to lay aside our normal waking identity, called “psychological geocentrism,” and taking up multiple alternative perspectives, called “polycentrism.” This is analogous to moving from a Ptolemaic world view to an Einsteinian one, in which every point is the center of the cosmos.
This twin process of disidentification and identification acts as a powerful tool for 1) the development of empathy, 2) the thinning of attachment to any one self or Self, and 3) as an evolutionary pump to deepen and broaden your alignment with the priorities of your unique life compass.
Interviewing
Integral Deep Listening teaches deep empathy and multi-perspectivalism through interviewing dream characters, the personifications of current life issues, life circumstances and relationships, current world events, fictional and historical events, synchronous, mystical, and near death experiences. Anything can be the object of an IDL interview.
The purposes of IDL interviewing are 1) to access potentials that are wanting to emerge into your waking awareness, 2) to provide creative and useful reframing of life issues and problems you wish to solve, or situations you wish to understand more fully, 3) access the priorities of your unique life compass; 4) provide cybernetic feedback on your progress through the IDL Certification programs, 5) help others to heal, balance, and transform, 6) create a support group of fellow students, called your external or social Sangha, who share your interests and perspectives on life in important ways, 7) access and build your own internal support system, called your “intrasocial Sangha,” 8) break down dualisms that keep you trapped in polarities that separate you from both oneness and experiencing the interdependence of life. Examples of such dualities are self/other, objective/subjective, dreaming/waking, real/illusory, useful/not useful, sacred and secular.
Intrasocial
The prefix “intra” means “within,” while “inter” means “between.” While social behavior involves outer and objective interactions, intrasocial behavior involves inner and subjective interactions. The intrasocial is also intersocial, in that while social behaviors occur between objective others, intrasocial relationships are between subjective others. “Subjective” others include dream characters, images, such as the personifications of life issues, or visionary experiences, such as mystical and near death experiences. More broadly, subjective others include our interpretations of life, historical, fictional, and synchronous events.
IDL explores intrasocial relationships in order to bring into congruence and integrate the macrocosm of seemingly objective others and the microcosm of seemingly subjective others. The healing of this fundamental split or dualism is a pre-requisite for higher order personal and collective evolution.
Integral
IDL seeks to integrate the prepersonal, personal, and transpersonal dimensions of life, both individually and collectively, in order to heal, balance, and transform personal and societal scripting. An integral approach to life is respectful of both imaginary and “real” others.
IDL is also integral in that it is multi-perspectival, as demonstrated by the interviewing of multiple perspectives, by the ten different modalities or competencies of which it is comprised, and by its application of aspects of Ken Wilber’s Integral worldview, particularly his holonic approach based on a four-quadrant understanding of “things” as holons.
Integral Life Practice
This is terminology taken from Ken Wilber’s Integral framework. An integral life practice, or ILP, may be physical, emotional, mental, shadow work, or interpersonal. Each is a clearly structured approach to healing, balancing, or transformation. The difference between integral ILPs and IDL is that the former are typically chosen by you, as developmental goals to work toward. In IDL you learn to set life priorities in conjunction with the recommendations of interviewed emerging potentials that point you toward the priorities of your life compass. This is an important distinction, because it is common to look back at our lives and realize that goals we set, the decisions that we made, and the relationships that we formed with the best of intentions, turned out to be detours or dead ends. This is much less likely to occur when we align our priorities for our integral life practices with those of our own unique life compass.
Integral Salon
An “Integral Salon” is an introduction to Integral Deep Listening that is held either in-person or in video chat format by students of IDL. Integral Salons generally include sharing by students, an exploration of some aspect of Integral Deep Listening, and a group interview.
Life Compass
You will find that interviewed emerging potentials repeat and emphasize underlying themes, priorities, and recommendations. One of these is to “wake up.” What you wake up to are the priorities of your own unique life compass. Your life compass is less a “thing,” like a soul, conscience, or even intuition, than a set of priorities or an orientation point, like the North Star, by which to navigate your life. The more that you access your life compass the more grounded and confident you will feel about yourself and your life, independent of your feelings, beliefs, or scripting. Your own personal goals and priorities will come to reflect those of your life compass.
Multi-Perspectival
When you are able to become, identify with, and empathize with many different viewpoints, as you do when you interview dream characters and the personifications of life issues important to you, you are developing a multi-perspectival identity that is not only empathetic, but flexible and highly adaptable. You are less likely to be caught up in your own subjectivity, scripting, drama, and cognitive distortions. You will set clearer, more useful and attainable goals, become more assertive and be better at solving the problems that come your way. You will be more open-minded and less judgmental, more grounded, creative, and in touch with the innate potentials of your own unique life compass.
“Ontologically Indeterminant”
This mouthful refers to the status of interviewed characters and elements. We normally divide experience into real and imaginary. Following Freud, Jung, and Moreno, it is common to view interviewed perspectives as “roles,” “self-aspects,” “parts,” symbols from our personal unconscious, archetypes from our collective unconscious, or “sub-personalities.” When we do so we are making an ontological determination. That is, we are saying what is real and what is not real, what is objective and what is subjective. We are saying that interviewed characters and elements are subjective and unreal. IDL does not make this assumption. Instead, it assumes that interviewed characters and elements exist somewhere on a continuum between total subjectivity, on the one hand, and total objectivity, as in a shamanic or Daemonic visitation. It assumes no interviewed character is completely one or the other but instead is interdependent, always partaking of some degree of both radical autonomy and subjectivity. That is, it is ontologically indeterminant.
Perspectives
A “perspective” is a viewpoint or way of looking at life. IDL often refers to interviewed dream characters or the personifications of life issues as “perspectives” or “emerging potentials.” This emphasizes what they do, or the functions that they serve, rather than what they are. It is a way of learning to look at life as changing processes rather than as stable, static things, as verbs rather than as nouns.
To view something as a perspective also emphasizes the reality of its own legitimate interests, priorities, purposes, preferences, functions, opinions, interpretations, assumptions, expectations, intentions, world view, and beliefs. From its standpoint those are as legitimate and relevant as our own. By learning about and taking into consideration alternative perspectives we expand and dilute our own. Our attachment to our own perspective is reduced while our understanding of why we do what we do, believe what we believe, and think we are who we are, is both clarified and reconsidered.
A perspective is not a symbol, like a dream symbol. That is, a perspective doesn’t stand for something else. It exists on its own, as itself. It is not a referent or inherently a part of some other identity, like your unconscious mind. It possesses what Buddhism calls bhava, or “own beingness.” When you do an interview and allow yourself to fully take the perspective of this or that element, regardless of what it is, you can feel the authenticity and autonomy of these perspectives.
Phenomenological
IDL is a phenomenological approach to healing, balancing, and transformation. It attempts to surface and then “table” relevant assumptions during the interviewing process. For example, the reality status of an interviewed character is tabled. We don’t question whether an interviewed dream octopus is real or imaginary. Instead we practice listening to its perspective in a deep and integral way. That means we suspend our assumptions not only about its reality but its meaning and value. We can make those assumptions later, after the interview. But during the interview itself, IDL practices a phenomenological approach, because to do so demonstrates to the interviewed character the degree of respect that we want others to show toward ourselves.
Pranayama
Integral Deep Listening uses breath as a balancing and centering tool that functions on its own and also as a form of meditation. IDL Pranayama observes that there are six stages to every breath: abdominal and chest inhalation, the short pause after inhalation, chest and abdominal exhalation, and the longer pause after exhalation. Sensory observation of these six stages is the first of seven “octaves” of IDL Pranayama. The second is observation of fundamental life processes associated with each of these six stages of every breath. These are awakening, aliveness, balance, detachment, freedom, and clarity. The third is observation of observance of abundance and gratitude: “I am supported by my body and mind, others, life; I give thanks for my body and mind, others, life,” The fourth involves six core qualities: confidence, empathy, wisdom, acceptance, inner peace, and witnessing. This is a movement into energic or nature mysticism. The fifth addresses six transformative perspectives: abundance, gratitude, joy, cosmic humor, empathy, and luminosity. This is a movement into devotional or subtle mysticism. The six is emptying, neti-neti, a Sanskrit term meaning “not this, not that;” “I am not my body, feelings, thoughts, intentions, sense of self, absence of my sense of self.” This is a movement into formless or causal oneness or mysticism. The seventh and final is oneness with life: “As life I awaken, grow, fulfill myself in you; As life I welcome you into me, embrace you, fulfill yourself in me.” This is a movement into non-dual mysticism. These seven cycles can be covered in as little as seven breaths and used in any life situation or state.
Prepersonal, Personal, Transpersonal
These are the three developmental stages of the self according to Ken Wilber’s integral theory. The prepersonal period is from conception until we begin to ask questions, say about the age of four. During the prepersonal stage we are first subjectively identified with our sensory environment. Our sense of touch, warmth, sound, sight, all sensations are who we are. Think of this as the consciousness or level of awareness of a tree. Trees are in touch with their sensory environment and that is their level of awareness. Trees don’t think and have very little awareness of emotional states, yet they are fully alive beings, one with nature.
At about the age of one and a half to two we become identified with our emotional preferences, what we like and dislike, want and don’t want. We objectify our sensations and bodies. We are feeling beings that “have” bodies and sensations. We don’t have to think to do this; we don’t have to be able to talk yet. Think of this as the level of awareness of your average mammal, like a dog. Dogs are enmeshed in their sensations, bodies, and emotions. Dogs and other mammals have strong likes and dislikes and feelings of fear, anger, and nurturance. They are capable of respect, altruism, and cooperation.
Many of our beliefs, along with our self-image, form at this time, meaning they are pre-rational. While later, we use language and reason to explain, justify, and validate both our beliefs and preferences, our beliefs are largely based on our emotional preferences. They exist to justify our self-image, which is largely a product of our childhood scripting, emotions, and inherited cognitive biases. People enmeshed in their scripting and the Drama Triangle are identified with this prepersonal level of development.
When we begin to talk and ask questions we begin to think. We begin to ask questions about things, others, and ourselves. When we think, we are separating who we are from whatever we are thinking about – our feelings, bodies, sensations, others, our environment. This thinking identity defines the personal level of development. Most people think enough to acquire food, safety, a partner, status, and various forms of enjoyment. They use thinking to justify what they do, what they experience, their worldview, beliefs, and prepersonal identity. Few learn how to think about thinking, that is, to think rationally. To do so is to learn to detach ourselves from our thoughts. At this point we are able to say, “I am not my sensations, I am not my body, I am not my feelings, I am not my thoughts.” Meditation is a skill designed to objectify our emotions and our thoughts so that they do not define us and determine who we are and who we can become based on what we think or don’t think. Notice that such objectivity does not mean that you cannot be fully immersed in sensations, in your body, in your emotions, or in your thoughts. It doesn’t say that it’s better to be detached from all those identities. What it does say is that it is better to have the freedom to be able to detach from them when and if you want or need to, for instance, when you have intense physical or emotional pain.
The “Transpersonal” is described in a separate entry below. While it is traditionally associated with states of mystical oneness, whether with nature, divinity, the formless, or the non-dual, these are available for anyone at any stage of development. Young children can have psychic or mystical near death experiences. What distinguishes the transpersonal is a thinning of identity not simply into non-being but into multiplicity – the ability to define ourselves by multiple other perspectives or identities rather than by our scripted familial, socio-cultural identity or by some transcendent Self or Atman.
There also exists in Integral Theory an intermediate stage of development between late personal and early transpersonal. This is called “vision-logic” or “integral-aperspectival.” It represents the ability to objectify all prepersonal, personal, and transpersonal developmental level as multi-perspectival maps. This moves us out of subjective enmeshment or identification with this or that developmental stage.
Psychological Geocentrism
In a Ptolemaic, geocentric universe, the sun, planets, and stars revolve around the earth. In psychological geocentrism, we are the center of our experience; reality revolves around who we think we are. This is often referred to as “egotism” or “narcissism,” but IDL sees those terms as hierarchical discounting judgments. In contrast, viewing our normal worldview and identity, whether awake or asleep, as orbiting around our sense of self, values this viewpoint as intrinsic to the natural order, to be valued in its own right rather than as something to be outgrown. In our everyday life, having a strong grounding in a sense of self is important to integration and development. However, in situations where empathy is required, psychological geocentrism is limited, because it makes life “all about me.”
Psychological Heliocentrism
In a Copernican, sun-centered universe, the earth and planets revolve around the sun. In psychological heliocentrism, our identity, meaning, and life revolve around deity, divinity, consciousness, spirituality, the One, the ALL. Our self becomes merged with this sacred ALL as a non-dual, transcending Self. This is the common viewpoint of self-development, transpersonal approaches, and self-actualization. For example, Jungian individuation is a form of psychological heliocentrism. While it is a major advancement over assuming reality revolves around our own personal needs, psychological heliocentrism, our identity as One with All is still distinct, like the concept of an enlightened soul. From a psychologically heliocentric perspective, we know what is Good, True, and Harmonious not only for ourselves but for everyone, since we have become one with ALL. This very real and authentic experience very easily leads to grandiosity and ego inflation that causes us to assume we possess truth and enlightenment not only for ourselves, but for all others. Instead of practicing listening in a deep and integral way we can easily practice preaching in an inspirational but self-validating way.
Polycentrism
In the Einsteinian or cosmological universe, there is no center. Every point is the center of all time and space. In a polycentric identity, no self or Self is the center of existence. Instead, whatever perspective one takes and embodies is real and authentic on its own terms, in its own way. In that context, it has purpose and function as an emerging potential we can grow into or ignore. IDL interviewing thins our identification with any and all selves by practicing the development of a polycentric experience of life. As our definitions of ourselves become less rigid and filtering of experience, creativity and problem solving increase. Healing, balancing, and transformation are supported.
Sangha
“Sangha” is a word from the Buddhist tradition meaning “spiritual community.” The concept of a community of those seeking awakening is important, not only because it indicates mutual support along our journey but also an awareness that as we help others to heal, balance, and transform we are at the same time helping to awaken those aspects of ourselves that they represent.
Integral Deep Listening recognizes an objective, social sangha, comprised of fellow students of IDL and also an interior, “intrasocial” sangha, composed of those dream characters and personifications of our life issues that we interview. Because others represent aspects of ourselves, when we interview others we are also healing, balancing, and transforming ourselves, represented both by their waking personality and the various perspectives that we interview.
Everyone and everything is potentially a sangha member. Others become members of our spiritual community when we practice listening to them in a deep and integral way, which is respectful, reciprocating, trustworthy, and empathetic.
Sociometry
”Sociometry” refers to “the measurement of groups.” The term was coined and the accompanying methodology developed by Psychiatrist J.L. Moreno in the 1920’s. In sociometry, group members, such as students in a class, are asked who they would most/least like to study with. These preferences are collected in a table called a “sociomatrix” and the group relationships revealed by those choices can be depicted in a “sociogram.” These relationships depict which group members are the most preferred “stars,” group members who are most rejected, who is isolated, and any mutual choices, forming “cliques.” This information can be used to reorganize the group for greater integration and higher level functioning.
Naming Meditation
IDL teaches the naming of thoughts, feelings, and experiences as a way to objectify the contents of our mind, whatever they may be. The purpose for this practice is twofold. First, as long as we are unaware of the contents of our awareness our thoughts think us and our feelings define us. As soon as we name what is going on in our awareness those contents are objectified, that is, made objects of our awareness. When naming occurs, thoughts, feelings, and experiences, which are normally chained together in a “train of thought,” become “uncoupled,” and spaces begin to appear between them. These spaces, in which there is no content of awareness but rather degrees of relatively clear awareness, are experiences of meditative objectivity. This is akin to cultivating formless or causal mysticism or oneness. In time these spaces between our thoughts and feelings expand until that meditative awareness becomes the “figure” in our ongoing awareness rather than its subjective ground.
Transpersonal
While “prepersonal” refers to the physically and emotionalluy centered sense of ourselves which forms our core identity, beliefs, and worldview, and which is normal in childhood but which stays with us all our lives, “personal” refers to a family or group-centered sense of ourselves that learns to ask questions, reason, and extend to others the same benefits and opportunities that we wish for ourselves and our children. “Transpersonal” refers to a sense of self that changes with the perspectives that we take. Instead of there being a monolithic self or Self, a transpersonal identity is highly empathetic, in that it can incorporate and identify with a wide variety of other perspectives, even those which are foreign, feared, or imaginary.
Trans-rational