The problem in dealing with True Believers is that they have their minds made up and any alternative world view threatens theirs. In our grandiosity we often think, “I will become a True Believer. Once they see how wonderful I am and how much I have to offer that will help them, they will listen to me and change.” This generally amounts to self-delusion, wasted time and wasted effort.
Wherever you go, whatever you do, your self-image, generally formed when you were a child, follows you. To change it, you need to get a sense of what it is and how it shows up in your thoughts and feelings and how it affects your relationships with others. Diamond has been married long enough to … Read more
How do we get accepted in the world for who we are? The need to feel accepted by others can destroy our peace of mind and keep us from finding and following our own path.
Sharon grew up with a molesting stepfather and a mother that looked the other way and has blamed her for not forgetting about it. This has caused years of depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, and drama. But there are parts of Sharon and you, that were never damaged by childhood injustices.
When we play the role of rescuer instead of allowing others to learn to take care of themselves we get caught in the drama triangle and burn out. Learning to love yourself means learning to recognize and stay out of drama.
Do you ever have trouble getting over a relationship? Do you ever have trouble staying true to yourself? If you do, you’re not alone! As you read this lady’s interview, let it awaken within you a greater connection with spirit within!
Do you have difficulty letting go of your past? Do you let idiots slow you down? Would you like to get free? Hop on the Motorcycle Within and ride into the life of your dreams!
We all get older, and with age come physical health issues. How do we keep them from souring our love relationships? In this interview, Cynthia speaks for “everyman” about this perennial struggle. She finds within herself a way to transcend her worries and fears about her health, aging, and her relationship so that she can look forward to the future with joy, equanimity, and confidence.
Do you ever feel helpless? Do jerks make you angry? Discover, as Josefine did, that you have the help you need inside yourself!
This whale thinks that there are times when sadness is appropriate, in a context of appreciating the abundance of life. Then the sadness can be experienced and shared in a productive way.
