This is an interview I wish I could do with every child or adolescent. It is so classic that I think most children can see themselves in it, and most adults as well. We all have a “devil” sitting on our shoulder telling us we can’t, shouldn’t, or won’t. The beauty of Integral Deep Listening, … Read more
Synchronicity is a term coined by the great psychologist, Carl Jung to indicate events that are obviously closely connected but which have no causal relationship. An example would be thinking about your mother as she is calling you on the phone. In the following example, the synchronicity occurred in three areas: 1) dream content, 2) … Read more
The problem in dealing with True Believers is that they have their minds made up and any alternative world view threatens theirs. In our grandiosity we often think, “I will become a True Believer. Once they see how wonderful I am and how much I have to offer that will help them, they will listen to me and change.” This generally amounts to self-delusion, wasted time and wasted effort.
This simple, straightforward interview reminds us that we have inside ourselves what we need to put things in perspective, to let go, and enjoy our lives. If Birgitta can do it, you can too!
Can guilt and low-self esteem show up as physical problems that interfere with your sex life? If it can, what can be done about it?
For some people, dolphins are invested with extraordinary intelligence, powers, harmony, and peace. As such, they can become saviors for those who want or need rescuing.
Wherever you go, whatever you do, your self-image, generally formed when you were a child, follows you. To change it, you need to get a sense of what it is and how it shows up in your thoughts and feelings and how it affects your relationships with others. Diamond has been married long enough to … Read more
If you have unfinished business with a deceased parent, what can you do? How does that wound affect who you are today? How does it limit your options? What can you do to heal it? Your dreams regularly comment on how long forgotten early family relationships shape how you view yourself and others today. If you listen to them, as this lady is doing, you will take a short cut to finding yourself, as opposed to the social identity that you had to become in order to survive. Use this format and interview yourself today.
Would you like to feel alive? Would you like to be full of joy? Would you like to feel the freedom that a dolphin feels surfing ocean waves? Most people don’t; they don’t let themselves. They think they can’t until they find their soul mate, make more money, live somewhere else, or get well. That’s called, “Waiting for Santa Claus.”
In this interview Rainbow learned that she doesn’t have to spend her life slowly dying while she waits for Santa Claus to come. Instead, she has within her the ability to wake up to freedom, joy, and aliveness today, now. You can too!
When we get older, three issues tend to destroy our happiness: family problems or distance, health, and money. As we age, our options for changing these things diminish; we are pretty much stuck with the family, health, and money that we have or don’t have, and now our challenge is how to accept the fact that much of what used to be important to us in the external world is beyond our control. Acceptance becomes increasingly important, without thereby yielding to passivity and helplessness.
