Category: Escaping Victimization

Getting Your Life Back on Track

I want to share with you a remarkable first interview with a new student of Integral Deep Listening (IDL), who we will call Ted.  The night before our first Skype appointment he asked for a dream that would help him

Posted in Escaping Victimization, Finding Yourself, inferiority, Integration, Life Issue, Low Self Esteem

Learning Assertiveness From a Black Hole in Space

A single IDL interview can change a lifelong association of helplessness with fear into something positive and constructive. How would Josefine’s life have been different if she had this interview when she was ten?

Posted in Anger, Assertiveness, Escaping Victimization, Finding Yourself

A Nightmare Says: “Love is Not All You Need.”

“You need to grow in your definition of love. It has to include boundaries, because otherwise your love is misunderstood as weakness and an invitation for abuse.”

Posted in Dream, Escaping Victimization, Nightmares!, Relationships, Undoing Nightmare Life Scripts

Dealing With Abuse in Love Relationships

Why do people keep making the same bad choices in relationships? Maybe they are attracted to abusers again and again. Maybe they keep going back into the same abusive situation. Why?

Posted in Escaping Victimization, Relationships

Surfing Your Way Out of Fear

We all have things that keep us from surfing through life, but few of us have the excuse of having our arm bitten off by a shark. Would you get back up on your board if that happened to you?

Posted in Escaping Victimization, Life Issue, Life Scripting Dreams, Low Self Esteem